You should read the individual steps in this article, and evaluate your feelings and relationship. Cause I didn't know how to deal with men. Pay attention to your gut. The right guy brings out your best personality traits, and you do the same for him. These behaviors are signs that your boyfriend does not respect you and is interested in a primarily sexual relationship. While these values will vary from couple to couple, it is important to think about what is important to you in life and whether or not your partner also values these things.